Menu Close

Ulaliki Waubwenzi / Friendship Evangelism

       

Rev. Ron Hanko

Tikulemba ulaliki waubwenzi poyankha pempho la owerenga: “Ndikufuna ndikufunseni ngati chinachake chingalembedwe poyerekezera ndi/kapena kusiyana pakati pa ubwenzi ndi dziko lapansi lomwe lili udani ndi Mulungu ndi ubwenzi ndi osakhulupirira ngati ntchito imodzi yomanga mlatho pogawana uthenga wabwino (Moyo pa Moyo ndi Mau a Umboni).”

Ulaliki waubwenzi kapena ulaliki wa maubale ndi kupanga ubwenzi ndi osakhulupirira, ndi kuwatengera ku nyumba Kwanu ndi m‟moyo mwanu kuti mupange mipata yogawana nawo uthenga wabwino. Webusayiti ya one life on life imapeleka ganizo lakutii njira imodzi yopangira ophunzira a one life on life ndikupanga kaye ma ubwenzi ndi anthu osakhulupira.

Woŵerengayi amagwilitsa ntchito mawu aku Yakobo 4:4, “Achigololo inu, simudziŵa kuti ubwenzi wa dziko lapansi uli udani ndi Mulungu? kuphatikizapo kutchula anthu amene samvera zimene Yakobo ananena kuti “achigololo ndi achigololo.” Ayenera kukhala ndi mayina otero chifukwa ubwenzi ndi dziko ndi kukhala osakhulupirika kwa Mulungu.

Palinso ndime zina. “Musakhale omangidwa m’goli ndi osakhulupirira osiyana ndinu; pakuti chilungamo chigawana bwanji ndi chosalungama? Ndipo pali chiyanjano chotani pakati pa kuwala ndi mdima? Pakuti inu ndinu kachisi wa Mulungu wamoyo; monga anati Mulungu, Ndidzakhala mwa iwo, ndi kuyenda mwa iwo; ndipo ndidzakhala Mulungu wawo, ndipo iwo adzakhala anthu anga. pakati pawo, ndipo patukani, ati Yehova, ndipo musakhudza kanthu kosakonzeka; ndipo Ine ndidzalandira inu, ndipo ndidzakhala kwa inu Atate, ndi inu mudzakhala ana anga aamuna ndi aakazi, atero Ambuye Wamphamvuzonse.”

Chipangano chakale chimatumiza uthenga womwewo: “Israyeli yekha adzakhala mwabata.” (Deut. 33:28) Yehosafati, mfumu ya Yuda, atapita kunkhondo ndi Mfumu yoipa Ahabu ya Israyeli, mneneri Yehu analangizidwa kuti: “Kodi muthandize oipa, ndi kukonda iwo akudana ndi Yehova? pamaso pa Yehova” (2 Mbiri 19:2).

Ndimezi zikupereka zotsutsana, kulekana kwauzimu ndi kutsutsa komwe kulipo pakati pa okhulupirira ndi osakhulupirira, ndi zomwe okhulupirira ayenera kusunga m’miyoyo yawo. Sitiyenera kukwatira osakhulupirira (1 ako 7:39) anthu osa- pembedza komanso a dziko lapansi (Yak. 4:4), kapena kukhala pa ubale uliwonse ndi wosakhulupirira umene uli goli losa- fanana (2 ako 6:14), mwachitsanzo, Kupanga ubale ndi amabizinezi ena, mabwenzi, ndi zoyambitsa ndi zolinga zadziko. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ndife osiyana mwauzimu, osati a ife eni, koma a chisomo.

Kaŵirikaŵiri mkangano umakhala wakuti wokhulupirira mwa kugwirizana ndi anthu osaopa Mulungu angapangitse kusiyana, angakhale “mchere ndi kuwala,” ndipo angasinthe dziko limene akukhalamo, kapena munthu amene amakwatira kapena kukwatiwa, kapena mabwenzi osakhulupirira amene amapanga. Komabe, ngozi ndi yakuti, m‟malo mosintha wosakhulupirira kapena dziko lapansi, wokhulupirirayo amasinthidwa. Monga momwe munthu wina ananenerapo, “Dontho limodzi la poizoni limaipitsa madzi ochuluka koma madzi ochuluka samasungunula poizoniyo mokwanira kuti asakhale wowopsa kwambiri.” Imeneyi ndiyo mfundo ya pa (Hagai 2:11-13). Chopatulikacho chikakhudza chinthu chodetsedwa, chopatulikacho chidzakhala chodetsedwa, koma chodetsedwacho sichidzakhala chopatulika.

Ndiponso (Mateyu 5:13-16) samalungamitsa mkhalidwe wotero wa Mkristu. Kutanthauzira kwawo ndimeyi ndikuti okhulupirira, kugwirizana ndi osakhulupirira, kumawachepetsera mdima ndi kuwakongoletsa. Pokhala mabwenzi a dziko lapansi ndi kujowina zoyesayesa zawo, kutengera zolinga zawo, wokhulupirirayo akuitanidwa kuti asinthe dziko lapansi ndikulipangitsa kukhala losadetsa nkhawa, lopanda kukoma. Kumeneko ndiko kutanthauzira molakwika kwandimeyi. Kuti okhulupirira ali kuunika kwa dziko lapansi sizikutanthauza kuti aitanidwa kuti apangitse mdima wa dziko lapansi kukhala mdima pang‟ono koma zimatanthauza kuti m’dziko la mdima wauchimo ndi iwo okha kuunika. Kuti iwo ndi mchere wa dziko lapansi sizikutanthauza kuti akuitanidwa kuti awononge dziko lapansi kukhala “lopanda kukoma” ndi kukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa chikhalidwe cha dziko lino. Mchere wonse padziko lapansi sungathe kuchiza nyama yowola. M’malo mwake zikutanthauza kuti iwo, mwa chisomo, ndi chinthu chokha padziko lapansi chomwe chili ndi kukoma kulikonse. M’malo mwake, pokhala chiitano cha kusanganikirana ndi kupanga mabwenzi a dziko lapansi, ndimeyi kwenikweni ikufotokoza zotsutsa, kusiyana kwakukulu kwauzimu pakati pa wokhulupirira ndi wosakhulupirira, mpingo ndi dziko lapansi.

Monga zounikira pa dziko lapansi, maitanidwe athu ndi kuti kuunika kwathu kuwalitsa, osati kupangitsa dziko lapansi kukhala mdima, monga umboni umene Mulungu amaugwiritsa ntchito kupulumutsa Ake: “Chomwecho muwalitse inu kuunika kwanu pamaso pa anthu, kuti apenye ntchito zanu zabwino, ndipo lemekezani Atate wanu wa Kumwamba” (16). Kumeneko ndi kumene timatcha umboni ndipo ndi mayitanidwe a wokhulupirira aliyense. Wokhulupirira amachitira umboni poyankha, atafunsidwa, za chiyembekezo chimene chili mwa iye (1 Pet. 3:15), chinthu chimene amakhala nacho mwaŵi wakuchita pamene wosakhulupirira awona kuti ali wosiyana m‟ntchito yake, ukwati, moyo wabanja, sabata. kuyang’anira ndi momwe amaonera ena. Wokhulupirira amakhala mboni pamene akuchitira zabwino ena amene sakhulupirira: “Kondanani nawo adani anu, dalitsani iwo akutemberera inu, chitirani zabwino iwo akukudani, pemphererani iwo amene amakuchitirani mwano ndi kukuzunzani” (Mat. 5:44), koma zimenezo n’zosiyana ndi kupanga mabwenzi ndi kuwaloŵetsa m’moyo. Nthawi zina umenewo ndi umboni wokha umene iye ali nawo pamene anayesa ndi kulephera kulankhula kwa iwo za chiyembekezo chimene ali nacho mwa Khristu.

Komabe, zimenezo sindizo zimene Baibulo limatcha kulalikira. Kulalikira m’Malemba ndiko kulalikidwa kwa Uthenga Wabwino ndi iwo amene Mulungu anawatuma, ndipo amene amatero m’malo mwa, ndi pansi pa uyang‟ aniro wa mpingo (Machitidwe 13:1-3; 14:26-27; 15:1-31; 36-41; 21:17-26). Pali chisokonezo chochuluka pa izinso, ndi anyamata ndi atsikana omwe amapita “kukalalikira” popanda kuitanidwa kapena kutumizidwa, komanso popanda kuyang’anira koyenera kapena ngakhale ndalama. “Ulaliki” woterewu ndi wosalongosoka, umachita zochepa ndipo nthawi zambiri umabweretsa chipongwe pa mpingo. Aliyense wokhulupirira ali ndi mayitanidwe kukhala mboni ya Yesu koma si aliyense amene ali mlaliki. Wokhulupirira aliyense amaitanidwa kukhala mboni ya Yesu m’mawu ndi moyo, koma osati kupanga mabwenzi adziko lapansi. Pamtima pa umboni wake pali chotulukapo chodabwitsa cha chisomo chopulumutsa cha Mulungu: kusiyana pakati pa iye ndi wosakhulupirira, pakati pa moyo wake, wodalitsidwa ndi Mulungu, ndi moyo wopita ku gehena wa amene sakhulupirira.

Ulaliki waubwenzi si wa m’Baibulo, ndipo mabungwe omwe amaulimbikitsa sakuchita kalikonse chifukwa cha Khristu ndi ufumu wake.

Show Buttons
Hide Buttons