We’re bombarded with antichristian messages everywhere in life, and from casual hookups to casual sex, our culture’s messages on dating are no different.
But Christians don’t have to follow these norms. The Bible gives us a better way.
It’s a way of chastity and wisdom. A way that understands that marriage—the end goal of dating—is for life. The person you marry will shape who you become spiritually. And that person will also be the father or mother to the children God is pleased to give you some day.
Pastorally and accessibly, Joshua Engelsma answers the practical questions of Reformed, Christian dating based on the truth that we must date differently—with marriage as the goal and scripture as the guide.
“The book is an enjoyable and easy read … It reads like I imagine a conversation on these topics would go with a wise older brother who happened to be a pastor.”—Rev. Cory Griess, pastor of First PR Church in Grand Rapids, MI
“[A] virtue of the book is the practical approach. The author successfully takes the biblical wisdom of Scripture and applies this to real life situations.”—Rev. Garry Eriks, pastor of Hudsonville PR Church in Hudsonville, MI
“A personal, pastoral, practical book that answers the questions dating couples will have, which should be read either before forming a relationship or inits early stages to be most effective and useful.”—Jon Van Dyk, Christian Renewal (January 18, 2020 issue)
“I would encourage all parents and youth to get this book … For what is more important than Christian marriages for God’s covenant children for their own happiness, but even more that will ‘serve their ultimate purpose: the glory of our Go din the demonstration of the unity of the Bridegroom and his Bride’ (p. 147).”—Rev. James Admiraal, The Outlook (Jan/Feb. 2020 issue)